Helping Teens and Families Live Happier Lives

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Helping Teens and Families Live Happier Lives

teenage girl hunches over and cries with the title "sad and overwhelmed"
teenage girl in despair about dropped notebook "overcome by trauma.'
teenage girl perfectionist looks insecure and holds sign reading "me 4 class prez."

Helping Teens and Families Live Happier Lives

teenage girl hunches over and cries with the title "sad and overwhelmed"
teenage boy smoking a joint with the title "unmotivated and disinterested"
teenage girl in despair about dropped notebook "overcome by trauma.'
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Helping Teens and Families Live Happier Lives

Welcome to Teen Therapy Center. My name is Kent Toussaint. I'm the founder and clinical director.
We are a group private practice here in Woodland Hills, California. We are filled with therapists
who are fun loving, professional, warm, and we specialize in helping kids, teens and families
live happier lives. And we do that because we speak teenager and we speak parent. And we are often
the interpreter in between the two to help bridge those gaps to make sure that teenagers are
finally understanding parents, parents are understanding teenagers. And we're helping
develop greater communication, better empathy, healthier boundaries within the family.
But when we understand a kid or a teenager, we also have to understand what it's like to be a little
kid and a young adult and a parent. Because when you're a teenager, you're in this amazing transition
period where you got 1 foot as a kid and 1 foot in the adult world. And it's confusing and it's frustrating.
You know, I know we've been teenagers. Your teenagers

are going through it for their very first time. And so my job, or our job as therapists is to help
them go through that. We do that through individual therapy, family therapy, and sometimes
group therapy, depending on what your kids needs are. There are a variety of issues we deal with,
obviously. Self esteem issues, school motivation, anxiety, depression, attention issues,
autism spectrum, anyone who identifies multi, exceptional or two E. We work with those people
every day. Kids who are their families are going through divorces or even sometimes when they're
blending families together. Those can be very nuanced, complicated issues. And sometimes
having a therapist to help bridge the gap, help increase and develop better communication
is really helpful. Thanks for stopping by. Please check out our website. Give us a call. We're
happy to provide a complimentary phone consultation so you can ask all your questions. We can
provide you the answers so you feel comfortable choosing us. And

if somehow what you're asking for is outside of our scope, we're happy to provide you other resources
so you can find the referrals you need to get the help you need for you and your family. Thanks
again. My name is Kenta Tussant. This is Teen Therapy Center, and we look forward to talking
to you soon.

Welcome to Teen Therapy Center!

The mission of Teen Therapy Center is to help children, teens and families live happier lives. We’re good at it too! We speak both “teen” and “parent” which helps us break down barriers to communication. Our staff is a group of fun loving professionals from a variety of backgrounds. You can meet them here.

Teen Therapy Center offers individual, family and group therapy. We’re happy to offer a free consultation to see if we’re the right fit for you. If not, we can still help guide you to the support you need. Get in touch at (818) 697-8555, we’d love to hear from you!

Online and Phone Sessions Available!

Teen Therapy Center is offering virtual therapy through platforms like Zoom, FaceTime, or via phone call. Whether you attend session in-person or from home, our therapists remain committed to providing a high level of care, compassion, and support for you and your family.

Online and Phone Sessions Available!

Teen Therapy Center is offering virtual therapy through platforms like Zoom, FaceTime, or via phone call. Whether you attend session in-person or from home, our therapists remain committed to providing a high level of care, compassion, and support for you and your family.

Our Latest "Tips on Teens" Video

Tips on Teens is our weekly segment on Facebook Live where Kent Toussaint answers your parenting questions. We cover a wide range of topics affecting teens and their families. We’ve archived all the videos right here on the site. 

Click below to search our library of Tips on Teens videos for answers to your questions. As always, we love to hear your questions. Send them to us here.


Is your 13 -year -old daughter ready for the independence that she's craving? Well, we're gonna
talk about that today on Tips on Teens. My name is Kent Toussaint. I'm a licensed marriage and
family therapist, and I specialize in helping kids, teens, and families to live happier lives.
I lead two organizations, Teen Therapy Center and the nonprofit 501c3 organization, Child
and Teen Counseling, both here in Woodland Hills, California. Every Wednesday at noon, I jump
onto Facebook Live to answer your parenting questions. Let's answer today's. My daughter
is 13 and she's really starting to push away. She resists spending time with the family and just
wants to go to her friends' houses all the time. We live about a mile from a yogurt shop and she
asked to walk over there and meet her friends. I'm not even comfortable letting her walk around
alone. I know this is gonna become more of a problem the older she gets. What do I do? Well, thank
you for your question. There's a lot to unpack here.


The first thing is what she's going through is fairly normal. Teenagers, adolescents normally
push away from their parents the more they get into their adolescence. It's normal. If they
didn't do this, they'd never leave the house. It's okay. It's a normal part of development,
but there needs to be a balance, right? It's okay for her to crave being with her friends, wanna
be with her friends. She should have some positive social interactions in her life routinely
and that's wonderful, but she should also have some connection with family as well. Even though
she's pushing away from it, there needs to be some balance and collaborating with her and how
to make this more appealing to her, more enjoyable for her. And you may get the rolling of the
eyes. You may get the, nothing, I just don't wanna be with you. I understand that. Many of us adults,
we're like that as teenagers too and we grew out of it, so be patient. It's a marathon, but make
sure that you're offering her both. Secondly, how


much independence should she plan to have? How dangerous is it for her to walk to the yogurt shop?
How much time should she spend at friends' houses? And again, every family's gonna be a little
different with this, but it's important to negotiate with her how much time she's spending
at friends' houses versus having friends at your house. And she may say, friends here is boring.
Find a way, a compromise with her to make that doable so you can get to know her friends, get to
know the parents of her friends as well. I think it's really important. But also this whole thing
of independence. Should she be able to walk to the yogurt shop that's a mile away? Physically,
a mile walk is not that big of a deal, but there's gonna be questions. Is she safe to do this? How
do you do this safely so you don't go crazy? Every parent has the nightmare that their child,
they let their child loose to give some independence and they get snatched up and they're gone
forever. Every parent has that nightmare.


I do too. I get it. But we have to understand that that nightmare is statistically incredibly
small. It is much more likely that she walks to the yogurt shop and is uneventful. Now again,
every neighborhood's different and I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but statistically,
she's much more likely to die in a car crash that you're driving. I'm not saying you're gonna
die in a car crash, I'm just saying statistically, that's a much more likely thing to happen
and you guys get in the car all the time and you take that risk all the time. So maybe collaborating
with your daughter on how to have safety. Does she need to get into self -defense classes? Does
she have her phone on? Does she have a tracker on her phone? Does she need to send a text when she
gets to the yogurt shop? If she goes to the sandwich shop that's two stores down, does she need
to let you know that? Figure out how do we allow your daughter to have some reasonable independence
so she can start developing that awareness of


how to do this because if not now, when? Is it when she's 16? Is it when she's 25? When is the time
when she can start experimenting with a healthy amount of independence? And this is really
scary and I'm gonna say something people may not agree with but in our society, we tend to worry
more about our girls than boys in these situations. I'm not saying that boys can't get abducted
or hurt because they can. Boys can get in danger too but I talk to parents all the time and they'll
say they worry more about their daughters in these situations than their sons and if he was a
boy, would you have the same concerns? You might or you might not, I don't know. But your fears,
I'm not saying we should throw them away. They should inform you but should they be in the driver's
seat? And maybe they shouldn't be in the driver's seat but they should be there to inform you
and to be aware so you're not too careless. My hunch is you're not gonna be careless because you're
already worried about this stuff


already. So collaborate with your daughter, find a compromise, something that may not be perfect
for anyone which is usually the best compromise there is and allow it to grow and evolve as she
matures and gets older and demonstrates responsibility. That's our question for today, thank
you. We love your questions, keep them coming. If you'd like me to answer your question, email
us at tipsonteens at teentherapycenter .com or you can direct message us right here on Facebook.
Thank you again, my name is Kent Toussaint. This is Tips on Teens and I represent Teen Therapy
Center and the nonprofit Child Indian Counseling. See you next week, bye -bye.

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